Happy New Year!
Whoa. It’s
2013. I know, I know .. it’s been
2013 for going on two weeks now .. totally yesterday’s news. One thing that you can count on with
this blog is that I will always be behind the times. I will never get things up on time, I will always run out of
time, and I will always not care.
Life happens. Sometimes
it’s hard to write about things when you’re just out living life. I think that’s okay.
Plus, it’s totally not too late to talk resolutions. Eeek.
A new year offers us a chance to reflect on the previous
year and in many cases, turn the page, if we so choose. I will certainly be turning a page this
year, and I look forward to what 2013 will bring. I’ve made a resolution for myself. What about you?
Do you have one? What is
it? Do you not? Why? How did you do with the 2012 resolutions?
Last year I resolved to be bold and chop off my long hair, which I did (
remember?),
drink more water (a work in progress – but I now carry a bottle with me
everywhere I go), and to be positive more often.
That last one is tough to chalk up to a
success or failure.
I carried this
goal in the back of my mind all the time, and I really made an effort to be
more positive on a daily basis.
I
worked on taking breaths when needed, smiling more, and opening myself up to
experiences that would make me happy.
I worked on letting things go. I also tested myself in a lot of ways and laid a lot on the line.
In some ways, things didn’t work
out.
It was tough, and I had some
very serious rough patches where I just didn’t feel positive at all.
I learned a lot about myself and I’m
glad that I did.
Here’s what most
of it boiled down to – it’s okay!
What I realized this year is that it’s okay not to feel good
all of the time.
It’s normal, and it’s healthy.
You simply cannot have good experiences around the clock. Life happens, and sometimes it really
sucks. It’s how you deal with
that, and how you treat yourself and others in the process that counts. Most of the time, really, it’s
okay (or it will be). This positivity thing is a resolution
that I am going to work into my everyday life from now on. That, and drinking more water. Always.
So, 2013.
On New Year’s Eve, my friend Jenna and I were declaring 2013
to be the year of everything. I
think we named it the year of citrus, hydration, pulp, yes, and no, among other,
less appropriate things. It
escalated quickly and it was hilarious.
Needless to say, 2013 will not be the year of pulp for me,
but rather, the year of forward motion.
It’s easy to get stuck in one spot and it’s possible to move
backward. I want to keep the
motion forward.
I resolve to keep my chin up, my heart full, my eyes
forward, and my feet moving.
I want to learn from, and then let go of the past. I want to look toward the future and
allow myself to be excited about it and inspired by it. I want to take advantage of new
opportunities and appreciate the opportunities I’ve already been given. I want to grow and change and accept
and excel. Above all, I want to
remember to keep moving forward.
Always forward. I know that
if I do these things, I can’t go wrong.
I am also going to drink more water, wear more sunscreen,
and eat out less.
What about you?
Any big plans for 2013?